So it finally happened to you too. You got a friend request from your mom. It’s not that you don’t love mama, you’re just not sure if you’re ready for her to find out that you’re a keg standing, cup flipping, beer ponging champ. To friend or not to friend? That is the question. If you’re not privacy setting savvy yet, here’s a quick reference sheet from Cool Material for you to turn to when deciding whether or not mom and dad have access to pics from that one party that you don’t even remember all that well: